sad. death.

[fflo]

Paula, my coworker, and not yet as much of a friend as I wish I'd made her, died last night. Her husband, gentle John, walked over to tell us the news.

We're all rather in shock.

I am thinking of how much regret I have that I didn't pursue her friendship more. And I'm thinking of what fun she could be, and how smart and savvy and verbal and witty she was. Irreverent, but not unserious. She had a gravitas that made her light and lightening moments seem all the more to be celebrated. It's only in the context of a sense of familiarity with angst that delight rings so deeply, with such profundity. And she did delight in much---it doesn't take having been her best pal to know that.

Goodbye, PAS. You know you've left a big ghost among us.

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[fflo.livejournal.com]

Thanks, Sara. I didn't know you were out there, you've been so quiet lately, lj-wise-speaking.

[sprig5.livejournal.com]

haven't been reading lj in a while. hmmmmm. for a while, i was too drugged out-- tell you more soon-- am better now. now i am going to a chiropractor!! tell ya more about that too! so ya travelled to mackinaw for t-giving. never been there, although i've heard about it-- my family went when i was at interlochen one summer -- "fudgies" came to interlochen to see the concerts. would like to hear about that too.