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here's an idea...maybe write down your weekly goals for dealing with this breakup shit. like, for example, on sunday night you sit down and write out, 'this week, i am going to go out with a friend for a drink and not talk about H at all.' or, this week, i am going to talk with H about (insert whatever you need to deal with). make them small goals, and then work up to the larger stuff. i know this may sound silly, but they (whoever 'they' are) say that writing down our goals makes it much more likely you will attain them. just a thought. thinking about you.