So why did I think that was maybe a lesbian/queer on the phone just now

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It felt like I had just talked to a young person who was probably a lesbian or a queer of some sort, and I liked it.  So what was it that conveyed that sense to me?  I can't quite articulate it to myself.  It was a tone of voice thing plus a matter-of-factness and pitch range combined with the absence of something.  The absence of some feminization imperative--- or even an edginess against such a thing.
 knees are up for more.  It's not all that cold, again, but it's endlessly overcast.  So much white-ish gray outside these days.

I can't go too far, though, as I just ordered a burrito delivery.  Unless I wait until after it's come & I've eaten.  Wonder how much the day's gotten longer now.  Like when it gets dark.  It's been a while since the solstice.

Winter is stunted this year.  It had the one snow and then that's it.  Just dreary chilly and sometimes windy and a fair bit of rain and mud.